Even in the most compatible relationships problems arise.  Often couples have fears of exposing their relationship secrets and dynamics to an outside person.  However, seeking assistance can feel empowering for couples because they can learn how to grow together instead of growing apart.  My work with couples centers on changing patterns of communication and developing more positive ways of interacting.  I help couples explore how past relationships, childhood wounds and feelings about themselves creep into their relationships in unwanted ways.  I have experience working with couples on issues ranging from sexual and emotional intimacy to infidelity and life transitions.  By generating more understanding and acceptance of each other, couples are able to make decisions that are best for them individually and relationally.